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ask.gif posted on 5.5.2011 at 04:35 PM
Torn between 2 people ?


good-evening everyone,


Who would YOU chose?


The one that you love or............


The one that loves you....



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[*] posted on 5.6.2011 at 04:26 PM


You've been reading my blogs,haven't you??:rofl::rofl:
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[*] posted on 5.7.2011 at 09:03 AM


:no: i be getting these threads via other boards mostly.. or maybe not... :D







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[*] posted on 5.7.2011 at 09:18 AM


Easy, the one who loves me.

I was just thinking about this this week. I wish that I had not brush off those who really loved me.
They used to cook, wash my clothes, do everything, I mean everything, for me.

Now years later, I wish I could have them back.




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[*] posted on 5.7.2011 at 02:59 PM


Well I could not be with someone I did not love.
Someone could love me but I may not be feeling them. I could not do that, I don't care how nice they might be.

Now if someone I love does not care for men at all, I'd just have to get over it, but I could not stay with someone I don't care about.




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When we make mistakes, we seek compassion.
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[*] posted on 5.8.2011 at 01:51 AM


There is a saying that through time, "you can grow to love them."

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110425020058AAgEOpZ

In the past, there were arrange marriages, where your family greatly influenced whom you marry. The bride would marry at an early age, whom her family chose for her. She had no part in her choice. The guy usually was older.
She had to either grow to love her mate or live a miserable married life.

I first heard that saying of "growing to love your mate" from a couple of young females in college. Your brain chooses first and your heart follows. They were of caribbean descent.

Love is a Decision.

Some people Love being Loved.

Read these interesting comments on Man's vs. Women's view of love:
http://allphilosophy.com/topic/346




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[*] posted on 5.10.2011 at 09:02 PM


They had no choice. I do.
I do not choose to be with someone one I do not care for just because they care for me.




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[*] posted on 5.10.2011 at 09:04 PM


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[*] posted on 5.16.2011 at 10:44 PM


My great-grandmother always said,"Take what like you,not what you like"!



When life gives you lemons,Make orange juice and leave the world wondering how the hell you did it!
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[*] posted on 5.21.2011 at 10:18 AM


Your great-grandmother was an extremely wise lady!



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[*] posted on 5.27.2011 at 06:04 PM


The one that I love def!
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