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ask.gif posted on 5.4.2011 at 09:11 PM
1st Dates ?


good-evening everyone,



Instead of going out is staying at your house or going to their house an option? :whistle:



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[*] posted on 5.4.2011 at 09:27 PM


HAYLE to the NAW!



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[*] posted on 5.5.2011 at 12:11 PM


I remember when I was in university, and I innocently invited this person to my shared house, next to campus, to watch a movie with me.

She abruptly said, "No way. take me out to the theater."
I understood her concern, but I was broke at the time and that was the best I could offer."

An older female once invited me to her house on a first date. My buddies told me not to go, because you do not know whom you are going to meet there. So I got her to come over by me for a nice evening.

So, it depends on how much you trust the person and know their background information - where they live, friends and work.




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[*] posted on 5.5.2011 at 09:26 PM


No.



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[*] posted on 5.6.2011 at 04:40 PM


Oh please!.....Sometimes the best first dates are the ones spent at either her house or yours.A home cooked dinner that you can make together.You'd be surprised at how much info you can gather on each other by prepping that chicken and those veggies.Many times some men really can't afford to wine and dine on that first date.If a man can afford that theatre date and dinner,by all means do it.If you can tell a woman upfront,she'll either understand and you can make plans to do something else together.If she says no and walk....What have you really lost?
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[*] posted on 5.7.2011 at 03:03 PM


A man should not ask you out for a fist date if he can't afford to take you out and I would not go to a man's house on the first date.



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[*] posted on 5.16.2011 at 10:54 PM


If it's someone I have known for a while and I feel comfortable with them I wouldn't mind going to one of our house for a first date,actually I would prefer it.

More time to have a conversation,more time to feel each other out and see where you might go from there and more to do at home,you can watch TV,play cards or dominos,play some board games to fill up those awkward moments of silence.

My first date with my S/O was at his house,we ordered a couple of pizzas,watched some TV,played dominos,listened to music,even spent some time hanging out with his brother and sister-in-law and his nephews,We had so much fun that we didn't even realize a new day had come.




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[*] posted on 5.17.2011 at 01:35 PM


Not on the first date. I dont even want to ride in the car with a first date...let alone go to thier home or let them know where I live. After we have gotten more comfortable and aquainted...then maybe.



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[*] posted on 5.27.2011 at 06:16 PM


No - absolutely not.
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[*] posted on 5.31.2011 at 12:34 PM


Nope! First dates MUST be in public places



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