Ms_Shy
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![[*]](./images/reflections/default_icon.gif) posted on 3.19.2010 at 10:27 AM |
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Family Cap
Why do some people not think before they speak. I am pregnant with my third child, and my coworker had the audacity to ask me if this is my last one.
Who is she to put a cap on my family.
I feel like I can have as many kids as I want. I am not on public assistance, I work hard for my family to provide for them. I would never bring more
children into this world then I can afford to take care of. I have another coworker who is white and pregnant also, I wonder if she expressed those
same things to her.
People can be so ignorant, I wanted to grab her little ignorant  and
 . Sorry you guys I just had to get that out.
It is what it is.
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Tea_Honey
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| posted on 3.19.2010 at 11:09 AM |
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You really should have put this in the Set It Off forum, but that's cool. You're had enough frustration for today. 
You didn't ask for advice, so I won't give any. I will say, however, that people ask the nosiest questions. And not just nosy. Rude. Uncalled for.
None of your dayum business. WTF??? questions.
It happens to all of us. Keep your chin up and keep on keeping on. 
All truth passes through three stages: 1) it is ridiculed, 2) it is violently opposed and 3) it is accepted as being self-evident.....
Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it
Choose your hypnotist well
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Diamond
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| posted on 3.19.2010 at 05:23 PM |
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YES...I get that 1000x a day it seems...We have 4 Bio Kids...but raising 3 nieces...makes 7 Kids...when out shopping wiht all of them...people give me
that side eye look of...That's one nasty ghetto ...ho...to that look of...."I wonder if they're by different baby daddies....to "Man, she must be
on welfare to afford all them...type looks...
Now what is bluntly said..followdd by that fake as .."I'm just playin'"..is...
" Are ya'll done yet..day';em"..that n-word must beleive in keeping you barefoot and pregnant"...girl...I'm just kiddin'..."
"You don't need anymore kids...You need to get your tubes tied"
"WHEN ( not if) he leaves you...you'd betta be prepared to raise 'em all by yourself..cause ya know the divorce rate is high and higher for black
folks...why would you do that to yourself..all them babies....???"
" You betta watch out...because that "baby weight " is gonna catch up to you when you age....you "think" you look all fine now..but keep having
more babies and see if you chitties don't start droppin' to ya knees and your hips spread ..and then your hubby trade you in for a younger
model...just watch"...
" If you keep having all these babies, your going to suffer from Bladder problems when you get older ..."
"Why ya keep putting your body thru all that...Your shape is gonna go and I can't wait to see that happen...'cause "ya'll" no better"
" You Hubs needs to get some control about himself...ya'll don't need to have your own basketball team..geez..."
"Dang ya'll must do it like rabbits...can either one of ya'll spell condoms"...??
"You need to get your tubes tied...or he needs to get a vasectomy...You need to tell him NO sometimes else ya'll gonna have a house full....!!"
LOL..and this is various family members esp at a reunuion...they jujst click their teeth...like cacklin' hens...
SO I feel ya....
OH and suck it in...The DOUBLE STANDARD between Black women with "kids"..and a White/Other women with same amount of kids...will never be seen as
equal...ex...If OctoMom had been a Black woman she would have been put in jail by now for Medicaid Fraud to Child Endangerment,let alone ongoing
eval's for mental health...and there will NEVER be a JON & KATE make 8...show...because both would be reported to CPS if Black......
JMO....lol....
Winners Never Quit...Quitters Never Win...
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Tea_Honey
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| posted on 3.19.2010 at 06:36 PM |
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| Quote: | Originally posted by Diamond
YES...I get that 1000x a day it seems...We have 4 Bio Kids...but raising 3 nieces...makes 7 Kids...when out shopping wiht all of them...people give me
that side eye look of...That's one nasty ghetto ...ho...to that look of...."I wonder if they're by different baby daddies....to "Man, she must be
on welfare to afford all them...type looks...
Now what is bluntly said..followdd by that fake as .."I'm just playin'"..is...
" Are ya'll done yet..day';em"..that n-word must beleive in keeping you barefoot and pregnant"...girl...I'm just kiddin'..."
"You don't need anymore kids...You need to get your tubes tied"
"WHEN ( not if) he leaves you...you'd betta be prepared to raise 'em all by yourself..cause ya know the divorce rate is high and higher for black
folks...why would you do that to yourself..all them babies....???"
" You betta watch out...because that "baby weight " is gonna catch up to you when you age....you "think" you look all fine now..but keep having
more babies and see if you chitties don't start droppin' to ya knees and your hips spread ..and then your hubby trade you in for a younger
model...just watch"...
" If you keep having all these babies, your going to suffer from Bladder problems when you get older ..."
"Why ya keep putting your body thru all that...Your shape is gonna go and I can't wait to see that happen...'cause "ya'll" no better"
" You Hubs needs to get some control about himself...ya'll don't need to have your own basketball team..geez..."
"Dang ya'll must do it like rabbits...can either one of ya'll spell condoms"...??
"You need to get your tubes tied...or he needs to get a vasectomy...You need to tell him NO sometimes else ya'll gonna have a house full....!!"
LOL..and this is various family members esp at a reunuion...they jujst click their teeth...like cacklin' hens...
SO I feel ya....
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I want to say something, but this sh!t sounds so much like "truth," I'm speechless.  I always got the 'yeah, you slim now, but wait til that middleage spread gets ya!' But I always just, sighed.... I guess. 
What is UP with relatives? Are they jealous??? Or, just gotta take you down a peg cause THEY look like hayle?! (not really, but they must THINK they
do!) 
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OH and suck it in...The DOUBLE STANDARD between Black women with "kids"..and a White/Other women with same amount of kids...will never be seen as
equal...ex...If OctoMom had been a Black woman she would have been put in jail by now for Medicaid Fraud to Child Endangerment,let alone ongoing
eval's for mental health...and there will NEVER be a JON & KATE make 8...show...because both would be reported to CPS if Black......
JMO....lol.... |
Truth.
All truth passes through three stages: 1) it is ridiculed, 2) it is violently opposed and 3) it is accepted as being self-evident.....
Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it
Choose your hypnotist well
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