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ask.gif posted on 4.3.2008 at 12:10 PM
Walk In My Shoes...


good-afternoon everyone,


Is it hard being you?

If so, what makes your life hard?


have a nice day...

sincerely,
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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 12:53 PM


As with anyone I have my struggles, but all in all, my life is great...so no, it wouldn't be hard for anyone to walk in my shoes (unless you have trouble keeping your balance in heels )....



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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 04:15 PM


I have been told by others that I was dealt a pretty bad hand...
I believe that with God all things are possible... I'm pretty sure that things could be alot worse...
I count my blessings and keep it moving...




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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 04:47 PM


It's extremely difficult being me but my life isn't hard. The life I live, I have been prepared and trained for.
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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 06:15 PM


My life is great....hence the name thegdlife...sure I have my issue, deal with them and move on, life's too short. Living my life like its golden !



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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 06:26 PM


My earlier yrs were rough, some of my college yrs tough...now..not so bad..pretty normal..but hectic...

I say if anybody can handle my mommy schedule, wife schedules, and workout habit....they'll be alright...generally and relatively happy..intimacy fulfilled...good but crazy azz lover & insane companionship who likes to tickle somebody and make 'em laugh, most extended family lovin' 'em too protectively.....generally content...spiritually confident that there is something Greater Than Oneself out there guiding one's steps and spiritually pickin' 'em up when they fail or fall....life being overall humbly and appreciatively "happenin"... flaws and all........

I can't complain...




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[*] posted on 4.3.2008 at 06:57 PM


My life is not so much hard as, well, complicated. As I've said, it's complicated, being Bronze. Any person that's going to walk in my shoes has to be ready to tread carefully in some unusual spots and meet some unusual people -- and wear a lot of hats. But that person will never be bored, and will often be very happy accomplishing things for self, family, and for Black folks in general.
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[*] posted on 4.4.2008 at 01:23 PM


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Originally posted by MrAdams
[font=Century Gothic]good-afternoon everyone,


Is it hard being you?

If so, what makes your life hard?



Forensics and DNA testing........why couldn't I have been born in the 60's? :wow:




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[*] posted on 4.4.2008 at 01:32 PM


I think its demanding being me. The responsibilities are endless. I have responsibilities stemming from being professionally primarily a property developer which ensure that i am in my office at 7am and that i usually head home around 7pm. I have a large extended family and my commitments to them would be taxing to the average person. I still wouldn't exchange this life for anything else. I'm married to a fantastic woman, i have an amazing four year old son, i'm in great health, i'm financially beyond what i ever dreamt i'd be in my youth and i'm content. My childhood was just plain difficult though, but that chapter is done.
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[*] posted on 4.4.2008 at 02:42 PM


Challenges I'm facing head on: a mother diagnosed with Alzheimer's and working daily as a community organizer. Both a difficult in ways I haven't even digested yet. But I promised myself that I would "keep on keeping on".

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[*] posted on 4.5.2008 at 09:58 AM


Yes...dealing with losing all of my immediate family members before the age of 26 ain't no happy picnic.
Lost mom at 11 she was only 36....big bro died a few days before my 21st birthday he was only 29...just buried my day last year he was only 58. My mother was the glue that held her family together so when she was alive I was surrounded in love but when she died everyone went their own ways. They say don't question God but I cannot help but to ask why?




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[*] posted on 4.5.2008 at 10:41 AM


I feel like my life is hard, and I feel like only a few could walk a mile in my shoes...with the right tools.......

From being homeless......to being a domestic violence survivor...to being....disabled for 4 months..and still recovering.... to taking care iof my mother who had major surgery......and being a single mother....it's hard....but with the right tools......I made it!




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[*] posted on 4.5.2008 at 02:47 PM


No harder than what I've made it for myself.

Through God with faith the grain of a mustard seed all things are possible.

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[*] posted on 4.5.2008 at 03:18 PM


Technically, yes it's hard.
My father is struggling with cancer, my mother's clinically depressed and my sister recently passed away, so I've been in a state of grief for some time now.
But there is the gift of memory, of my sister's words: "We are young and Black and free".
When I remember her and her bravery and sweetness, I know my life is not so tough after all.
When I look into my fiance's eyes, I know I'm truly loved.
Never alone, never forsaken.
Forever hopeful.




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of my sweet genius sister, the Duchess.
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