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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 10:45 PM
The real way to prevent rape.


I saw this on another board.

"A lot has been said about how to prevent rape.
women should learn self-defense. women should lock themselves in their houses after dark. women shouldn't have long hair and women shouldn't wear short skirts. women shouldn't leave drinks unattended. ****, they shouldn't dare to get drunk at all.
instead of that bull****, how about :

if a woman is drunk, don't rape her.
if a woman is walking alone at night, don't rape her.
if a women is drugged and unconscious, don't rape her.
if a woman is wearing a short skirt, don't rape her.
if a woman is jogging in a park at 5 am, don't rape her.
if a woman looks like your ex-girlfriend you're still hung up on, don't rape her.
if a woman is asleep in her bed, don't rape her.
if a woman is asleep in your bed, don't rape her.
if a woman is doing her laundry, don't rape her.
if a woman is in a coma, don't rape her.
if a woman changes her mind in the middle of or about a particular activity, don't rape her.
if a woman has repeatedly refused a certain activity, don't rape her.

if a woman is not yet a woman, but a child, don't rape her.
if your girlfriend or wife is not in the mood, don't rape her.
if your step-daughter is watching tv, don't rape her.
if you break into a house and find a woman there, don't rape her.
if your friend thinks it's okay to rape someone, tell him it's not, and that he's not your friend.

if your "friend" tells you he raped someone, report him to the police.
if your frat-brother or another guy at the party tells you there's an unconscious woman upstairs and it's your turn, don't rape her, call the police and tell the guy he's a rapist.

tell your sons, god-sons, nephews, grandsons, sons of friends it's not okay to rape someone.

don't tell your women friends how to be safe and avoid rape.
don't imply that she could have avoided it if she'd only done/not done x.
don't imply that it's in any way her fault.
don't let silence imply agreement when someone tells you he "got some" with the drunk girl.
don't perpetuate a culture that tells you that you have no control over or responsibility for your actions. You can, too, help yourself."




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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 10:49 PM



LOL...if those rules were followed there would be no such term as rape...



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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 10:51 PM


:wow:@Coma?



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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 10:51 PM



can a person be mentally raped?



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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 11:12 PM



:clap: Thank you Intel
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[*] posted on 11.26.2005 at 11:51 PM



:tu: If only *SIGH*



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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 04:18 AM



This is good....too bad pople don't think like this.



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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 10:33 AM



:dance: Intel_One pretty much your post is the bottom line.



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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 12:42 PM



Do you really believe those "rules" will stop ANYONE from raping?

Anyway, PLEASE tell me how a husband can rape his wife? It is IMPOSSIBLE! I know my words spell war, but I am going to spell it out to you; THAT bullskit is right out of the WLF playbook!


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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 01:20 PM



It's possible SBM. If the woman says no and the husband TAKES it then he raped her. No means no, doesn't matter if it's to a stranger on the street or someone as familiar as your husband. The meaning doesn't change, and if someone takes something away from you that you are not willing to give then it's stealing. The technical term for that when it comes to a womans body is rape.
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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 02:15 PM



Quote:
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Do you really believe those "rules" will stop ANYONE from raping?

Anyway, PLEASE tell me how a husband can rape his wife? It is IMPOSSIBLE! I know my words spell war, but I am going to spell it out to you; THAT bullskit is right out of the WLF playbook!


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First of all..I thought we bid you adieu last week sometime...twice

Secondly...I pity your wife who, by what I am understanding from your post, has no right to determine what happens to her own body
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Thirdly, is it safe to assume you have never been raped?

Like :mj: said..you wanna be startin somethin
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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 02:27 PM



^^^lol@ebonyi.

Any idiot who thinks that they can't rape their wife based upon the fact they are married is irresponsible and does not need to be married. OR better yet is a rapist and needs to be reported.

As mentioned above if your wife says NO than it is NO. A woman does not owe a man anything married or not. Sex should always be consentual.

The nerve of people.




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[*] posted on 11.27.2005 at 02:40 PM



^ I second that. Sex should ALWAYS be consensual!!



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[*] posted on 11.28.2005 at 02:57 AM



Quote:
Originally posted by Strongblackman
Do you really believe those "rules" will stop ANYONE from raping?

Anyway, PLEASE tell me how a husband can rape his wife? It is IMPOSSIBLE! I know my words spell war, but I am going to spell it out to you; THAT bullskit is right out of the WLF playbook!


PEACE!


You're such an idiot. It's official you're certifiable. And damnit when are you leaving for good?




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[*] posted on 11.28.2005 at 05:23 AM



All of that is well and good but the bottom line is a woman should be aware of her surroundings. Don't walk around after dark talking on a cell phone. Pay attention.



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